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Griffin Speaks COURTHOUSE SHOOTING
Brian Nichols age 33 lived in Buckhead and drove a BMW. He
attended private schools while growing up in Baltimore, Maryland. He
attended college in Pennsylvania where he was a linebacker. He grew up in a
middle class family. Brian’s world turned upside down when he was accused
of rape and aggravated sodomy by his ex-girlfriend whom he had a 7-year
relationship. What made Brian Nichols flip out? Brian Nichols was hit by that “uncontrollable moment”
that most people who commit murder experience. In my years of involvement
with law enforcement and the criminal justice system I am convinced that
everyone is capable of murder even mass murder if they do not learn how to
deal with that “uncontrollable moment”. What is this “uncontrollable
moment”? It is the moment that a person is so frustrated and angry that
they have no regard for the consequences of their actions. It can be
experienced in the parking lot at Wal-Mart, inside the workplace, in the
home or anywhere on the face of the earth. How is it that most people are able to avoid this
“uncontrollable moment”? I believe that most people learn how to manage
their anger during childhood. They learn that anger eventually goes away.
There are no living creatures that remain angry forever. Brian Nichols has destroyed the lives of four innocent people
and consequently destroyed his own. It happened because he allowed himself
to become a victim of that “uncontrollable moment”. He must face the
music now and the music will not be sweet. We must teach our children how to manage their anger.
“Those whom the Gods choose to destroy, they first make mad!” Whatever
happens to you refuse to get mad! When you become mad you risk becoming the
victim of that “uncontrollable moment”. Greg
Griffin is a free lance writer. You can read his previous articles by
visiting his web page at www.greggriffin.com |
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